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Rules of Civility: A Novel Kindle Edition

4.4 4.4 out of 5 stars 43,615 ratings

From the #1 New York Times-bestselling author of The Lincoln Highway and A Gentleman in Moscow, a “sharply stylish” (Boston Globe) book about a young woman in post-Depression era New York who suddenly finds herself thrust into high society—now with over one million readers worldwide

On the last night of 1937, twenty-five-year-old Katey Kontent is in a second-rate Greenwich Village jazz bar when Tinker Grey, a handsome banker, happens to sit down at the neighboring table. This chance encounter and its startling consequences propel Katey on a year-long journey into the upper echelons of New York society—where she will have little to rely upon other than a bracing wit and her own brand of cool nerve.

With its sparkling depiction of New York’s social strata, its intricate imagery and themes, and its immensely appealing characters,
Rules of Civility won the hearts of readers and critics alike.

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Towles resurrects the cinematic black-and-white Manhattan of the golden age, says the NYTBR
#1 New York Times bestselling author ARMOR TOWLES

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Amazon Best Books of the Month, August 2011 Set during the hazy, enchanting, and martini-filled world of New York City circa 1938, Rules of Civility follows three friends--Katey, Eve, and Tinker--from their chance meeting at a jazz club on New Year's Eve through a year of enlightening and occasionally tragic adventures. Tinker orbits in the world of the wealthy; Katey and Eve stretch their few dollars out each evening on the town. While all three are complex characters, Katey is the story's shining star. She is a fully realized heroine, unique in her strong sense of self amidst her life's continual fluctuations. Towles' writing also paints an inviting picture of New York City, without forgetting its sharp edges. Reminiscent of Fitzgerald, Rules of Civility is full of delicious sentences you can sit back and savor (most appropriately with a martini or two). --Caley Anderson

A sophisticated and entertaining debut novel about an irresistible young woman with an uncommon sense of purpose.

Set in New York City in 1938,
Rules of Civility tells the story of a watershed year in the life of an uncompromising twenty-five-year- old named Katey Kontent. Armed with little more than a formidable intellect, a bracing wit, and her own brand of cool nerve, Katey embarks on a journey from a Wall Street secretarial pool through the upper echelons of New York society in search of a brighter future.

The story opens on New Year's Eve in a Greenwich Village jazz bar, where Katey and her boardinghouse roommate Eve happen to meet Tinker Grey, a handsome banker with royal blue eyes and a ready smile. This chance encounter and its startling consequences cast Katey off her current course, but end up providing her unexpected access to the rarified offices of Conde Nast and a glittering new social circle. Befriended in turn by a shy, principled multimillionaire, an Upper East Side ne'er-do-well, and a single-minded widow who is ahead of her times, Katey has the chance to experience first hand the poise secured by wealth and station, but also the aspirations, envy, disloyalty, and desires that reside just below the surface. Even as she waits for circumstances to bring Tinker back into her orbit, she will learn how individual choices become the means by which life crystallizes loss.

Elegant and captivating,
Rules of Civility turns a Jamesian eye on how spur of the moment decisions define life for decades to come. A love letter to a great American city at the end of the Depression, readers will quickly fall under its spell of crisp writing, sparkling atmosphere and breathtaking revelations, as Towles evokes the ghosts of Fitzgerald, Capote, and McCarthy.

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While jazz is not central to the narrative of Rules of Civility, the music and its various formulations are an important component of the book’s backdrop.

On the night of January 16, 1938, Benny Goodman assembled a bi-racial orchestra to play jazz to a sold-out Carnegie Hall--the first jazz performance in the hallowed hall and one which is now famous for bringing jazz (and black performers) to a wider audience. I am not a jazz historian, but for me the concert marks something of a turning point in jazz itself--from the big-band, swing-era sound that dominated the 1930s (and which the orchestra emphasized on stage that night) towards the more introspective, smaller group styles that would soon spawn bebop and its smoky aftereffects (ultimately reaching an apogee with Miles Davis’s Kind of Blue in 1957). For it is also in 1938 that Coleman Hawkins recorded the bebop antecedent "Body & Soul" and Minton’s Playhouse, one of the key bebop gathering spots, opened in Harlem. By 1939, Blue Note Records was recording, and Dizzy Gillespie, Charlie Parker and Thelonious Monk were all congregating in New York City. From 1935-1939, Goodman himself was stepping out of the big-band limelight to make more intimate improvisational recordings with a quartet including Gene Krupa and Lionel Hampton.

My assertion of this as a turning point (like most such assertions) is rough, inexact and misleading, but it helps give shape to an evolution and bring into relief two ends of a jazz spectrum. On the big-band front, the power of the music naturally springs from the collective and orchestration. In numbers like "Sing, Sing, Sing," the carefully layered, precisely timed waning and waxing of rhythm and instrumentation towards moments of unified musical ecstasy simply demand that the audience collaborate through dance, cheers, and other outward expressions of joy. While in the smaller groups of bebop and beyond, the expressive power springs more from the soloist and his personal exploration of the music, his instrument, and his emotional state at that precise moment in time. This inevitably inspires in the listener a cigarette, a scotch, and a little more introspection. In a sense, the two ends of this jazz spectrum are like the public/private paradox of Walker Evans’s subway photographs (and of life in the metropolis itself.)

If you are interested, I have created an playlist of music from roughly 1935-1945 that spans this transition. The playlist is not meant to be comprehensive or exact. Among other items, it includes swinging live performances from Goodman’s Carnegie Hall Concert as well as examples of his smaller group work; there are precursors to bebop like Coleman Hawkins and some early Charlie Parker. As a strange historical footnote, there was a strike in 1942–1944 by the American Federation of Musicians, during which no official recordings were made. As such, this period at the onset of bebop was virtually undocumented and thus the records of 1945 reflect something of a culmination of early bebop rather than its starting point. The playlist also reflects the influence of the great American songbook giants (Cole Porter, Duke Ellington, Irving Berlin, Rodgers & Hart, the Gershwins), many of whom were at the height of their powers in the 1930s. --Amor Towles

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Rules of Civility

“An irresistible and astonishingly assured debut about working class-women and world-weary WASPs in 1930s New York…in the crisp, noirish prose of the era, Towles portrays complex relationships in a city that is at once melting pot and elitist enclave – and a thoroughly modern heroine who fearlessly claims her place in it.”
O, the Oprah Magazine

“With this snappy period piece, Towles resurrects the cinematic black-and-white Manhattan of the golden age…[his] characters are youthful Americans in tricky times, trying to create authentic lives.” The New York Times Book Review

“This very good first novel about striving and surviving in Depression-era Manhattan deserves attention…The great strength of Rules of Civility is in the sharp, sure-handed evocation of Manhattan in the late ‘30s.” Wall Street Journal

“Put on some Billie Holiday, pour a dry martini and immerse yourself in the eventful life of Katey Kontent…[Towles] clearly knows the privileged world he’s writing about, as well as the vivid, sometimes reckless characters who inhabit it.” People

“[A] wonderful debut novel…Towles [plays] with some of the great themes of love and class, luck and fated encounters that animated Wharton’s novels.” The Chicago Tribune

“Glittering…filled with snappy dialogue, sharp observations and an array of terrifically drawn characters…Towles writes with grace and verve about the mores and manners of a society on the cusp of radical change.” NPR.org


“Glamorous Gotham in one to relish…a book that enchants on first reading and only improves on the second.”
The Philadelphia Inquirer

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B004IYJDVG
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Penguin Books; 1st edition (July 26, 2011)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ July 26, 2011
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 3.3 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 353 pages
  • Page numbers source ISBN ‏ : ‎ 0670022691
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 28, 2025
    Amon Towles is a great writer - wonderful imagination and so much fun to read. This book is based on George Washington's own "rules of civility" and how to treat others you may meet.
  • Reviewed in the United States on October 7, 2012
    I really enjoyed reading this book. No I don't think Amor Towles is the next F. Scott, but I really enjoyed the language and metaphors that some people are blasting in the reviews. Unfortunately, the pacing fell off somewhere around the middle of the book and it just wandered around for a while and then decided to stop. The very ending made sense, but Tinker's desires and goals could have been woven better into the rest of the novel so that the ending would seem to the reader the only way it could or should have ended. Instead it just sort of quietly stopped after meandering around for a while.

    I felt the introduction of Tinker's brother and the role that character played was completely extraneous, and should have been edited out or fixed to be more effective. The author seemed to try to use the brother to justify Tinker's choices and I didn't buy it. I actually felt that way about a lot of the secondary characters. Their roles were elevated beyond their usefulness. A tighter focus on Tinker, Eve, Katie and Anne (oh, and what about Val? His cameos weren't even long enough to generate interest, and they should have been!) while getting rid of all the girlfriends and the Texan with the maitre d', and and and would have greatly improved this book. Some of the literary allusions fell flat, and the author didn't quite seem to be able to keep a little Mike Hammer or something from his voice, although it detracted only slightly.

    This review sounds uber-critical for someone who says she loved reading this book, but that is because I was really paying attention, which is the biggest complement I can pay to an author.

    Now for a few of the things I really liked: I loved the voice of the main character. Her imperfect self was imminently knowable and believable to me, although the intro and the ending had me kind of wondering if I still cared. I loved the description of the Russian club--this author really gets the truth of these Russians and described their emotional way of relating to things beautifully. I felt like I had been there. And my favorite part was the descriptive prose and imagery. On one of the first pages, this caught my eye:

    "In the 1950's, America had picked up the globe by the heels and shaken the change from its pockets. Europe had become a poor cousin--all crests and no table settings. And the indistinguishable countries of Africa, Asia, and South America had just begun skittering across our schoolroom walls like salamanders in the sun. True, the Communists were out there, somewhere, but with Joe McCarthy in the grave and no one on the Moon, for the time being the Russians just skulked across the pages of spy novels."

    What a beautifully succinct way to set the time and arrogantly optimistic American mindset for the book! So in spite of its shortcomings, this book is worth the time it takes to read it and I do recommend it although with the caveat that you will probably enjoy the first half and then cruise through the second without the full satisfaction that might have been...
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 15, 2018
    There have been many paeans to New York City through the years. Amor Towles, in “Rules of Civility,” has written one that may best sum up the vibrant existence of those fortunate enough to prowl the steel canyons.

    A chance encounter by the protagonist, saddled with the unfortunate name of Katey Kontent, and charmer Tinker Grey on New Year’s Eve in 1937 leads to a lifetime of on-again, off-again relationships with acquaintances that take the reader on a voluptuous tour of the world’s most dramatic city and its denizens.

    There’s not much in the way of an intricate plot. There are no mysteries, echoes of mafia pistols, dramatic sobs of dismay, or deep philosophical meanderings. It’s a world of enjoying parties, good food, scoping windows through binoculars, and earnest conversations on cold, stone stoops. Relationships come and go like the East River tide, nothing too dramatic or spectacular, but seeming to always steer personal beliefs and actions to new headings. That’s about all there is to the plot.

    So where’s the attraction? Without a doubt it’s to be found in Towles’ glorious writing. This is a man who can speak in a woman’s voice without it being annoying.
    Careers are carefully outlined with either prosperity or poverty being the closing act. Fine restaurants, neighborhood haunts, glamorous hotels, waterfront environs, cold, wintry streets, verdant Central Park, and apartments, both dazzling and dowdy, are all explored by the characters in the novel, all searching for the comforting embrace of something to cling to. The author is marvelously adept at bring the atmosphere and environment of a huge city to his work.

    His quiet inclusion of various words of inspiration and knowledge from past luminaries, pinnacled by George Washington’s 110 Rules of Civility (thoughtfully listed at the back of the book), resonate with the reader as appropriate ways to behave. Some of his characters follow the precepts, others do not. In today’s world, some might sound fussy and a little silly but the reader has to be affected by their inclusion. Actually formulated by French Jesuits in 1595, the rules were copied by Washington at age 16 in his notebook of penmanship. But in the late 1930s and early 1940s of Towles’ book, the rules of courtesy and manners were very much in vogue, as they should be today.

    I urge readers to have a look at the book if, for nothing else, one’s personal behavior needs a lube job. There is also the chance that the beautiful look at NYC will inspire some further research and possibly a visit to the city that never sleeps. I loved the book and its lyrical backdrop and references. Indeed, my personal behavior has been well greased.

    Schuyler T Wallace
    Author of TIN LIZARD TALES
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 13, 2025
    One of the greatest books I’ve ever read

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  • Kindle Customer
    5.0 out of 5 stars My favourite book.
    Reviewed in Canada on January 25, 2025
    Good selection for a book group. Amor Towles knows how to keep the reader hooked and loved his descriptive words.
  • dsmeaton
    5.0 out of 5 stars My wife finds Amor's writing so captivating! She loves his work!
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 15, 2025
    Rules of Civility is a brilliantly crafted debut novel by Amor Towles, capturing the glamour and grit of 1930s New York through sharp prose and unforgettable characters. The story follows Katey Kontent, a smart and ambitious young woman navigating high society, friendships, and personal reinvention over the course of a transformative year.

    Towles’ writing is elegant and immersive, bringing the era to life with dazzling detail and a deep appreciation for the complexities of class, ambition, and fate. The novel reads like a modern classic, filled with sharp dialogue, richly drawn settings, and a protagonist whose journey is both compelling and thought-provoking.

    My wife loves Amor Towles’ books, and Rules of Civility was no exception. As his debut novel, it already showcases the skill and sophistication that make his writing so captivating. For anyone who enjoys historical fiction with style, depth, and memorable storytelling, this book is a must-read.
  • A. H. G. Kan
    5.0 out of 5 stars A magnificent novel
    Reviewed in the Netherlands on April 7, 2024
    Staffed by remarkable characters, this book is first and foremost an ode to Manhattan and the lifestyle it stands for, including a revealing perspective on the ins and outs of belonging to its happy few.
  • laura 1955
    5.0 out of 5 stars Vivace,giovane,intelligente
    Reviewed in Italy on February 5, 2024
    Un modo di scrivere molto vivace e sorprendente,che mi ha dato ore di lettura piacevoli, catturandomi.
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  • Marc
    5.0 out of 5 stars Una novela deliciosa
    Reviewed in Spain on August 28, 2021
    Brillante, divertida, emotiva, original, dinámica y muy bien escrita. Me ha gustado tanto como Un caballero en moscú. Esta la leí en inglés, y la otra traducida al castellano. Ambas me han encantado. Espero su nuevo libro.

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