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Soldier Girls: The Battles of Three Women at Home and at War Kindle Edition
“In the tradition of Adrian Nicole LeBlanc, Richard Rhodes, and other masters of literary journalism, Soldier Girls is utterly absorbing, gorgeously written, and unforgettable” (The Boston Globe). Helen Thorpe follows the lives of three women over twelve years on their paths to the military, overseas to combat, and back home…and then overseas again for two of them. These women, who are quite different in every way, become friends, and we watch their interaction and also what happens when they are separated. We see their families, their lovers, their spouses, their children. We see them work extremely hard, deal with the attentions of men on base and in war zones, and struggle to stay connected to their families back home. We see some of them drink too much, have affairs, and react to the deaths of fellow soldiers. And we see what happens to one of them when the truck she is driving hits an explosive in the road, blowing it up. She survives, but her life may never be the same again.
Deeply reported, beautifully written, and powerfully moving, Soldier Girls is “a breakthrough work...What Thorpe accomplishes in Soldier Girls is something far greater than describing the experience of women in the military. The book is a solid chunk of American history...Thorpe triumphs” (The New York Times Book Review).
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherScribner
- Publication dateAugust 5, 2014
- File size2.0 MB
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"In the tradition of Adrian Nicole LeBlanc, Richard Rhodes, and other masters of literary journalism, SOLDIER GIRLS is utterly absorbing, gorgeously written, and unforgettable." (Boston Globe)
"A dynamic understanding of what it’s been like for Guard members who unexpectedly found themselves shipped off to the front lines of the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq... highly complex matters are all made palpably real through the prism of this book’s three heroines’ lives." (The New York Times)
“With a novelist’s perception of character, drama, and telling detail, Helen Thorpe magically weaves together the stories of three very different but equally compelling women soldiers. Taken together, their stories provide an intimate window on life in the military, the impact of war, and the difficult transition to home. This is an absolutely terrific and important work.” (Doris Kearns Goodwin )
"Thorpe follows three women, tracking their ups and downs withfaithful detail in a brilliant tableau of their overlapping lives for 12 yearsas they do multiple tours in Afghanistan and Iraq and readjust to civilianlife...Soldier Girls raises important questions about how men and women serve together and thedifferences in how they experience war, enabling us to see the subtle challengesfemale soldiers face — the hardships that don’t make easy headlines." (The Washington Post)
"A thoughtful, fascinating and often heartbreaking account... Thorpe manages to burrow deeply into the lives of these women...incredibly intimate." (Miami Herald)
"A nuanced look at the lives of female soliders that is as intimate as it is groundbreaking." (O Magazine)
“A raw, intimate look at the impact of combat and the healing power of friendship.” (People magazine)
"A vivid and intensely personal account of the lives of three women whose only common denominator had been that they joined the Indiana National Guard never imagining they might end up in a war zone... Thorpe's matter-of-fact tone and clear and concise prose make the book all the more riveting... a captivating read, an important book and a stunning accomplishment." (Lorraine Dusky, Military History magazine )
"Heart-breaking... absorbing, funny... a cry worth attending, sounded by a band of sisters put in harm's way." (Newsday)
"Tracking a trio in an Indiana battalion, Thorpe movingly captures how unexpected deployments rocked women's lives... she unravels the women's complex relations--and how they sustain one another." (Elle Magazine)
"Moving... Highlighting how profoundly military service changed their lives--and the lives of their families--this visceral narrative illuminates the role of women in the military, the burdens placed on the National Guard, and the disproportionate burden of these wars borne by the poor." (Publishers Weekly, STARRED review)
"The absorbing story of how wartime experiences shaped the lives and friendships of three female soldiers deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan... Intensely immersive reading." (Kirkus, STARRED review)
"Laudable for its clear focus on individuals and their idiosyncratic life stories... Soldier Girls is a worthy addition to the literature of our most recent wars.The three women at the heart of Thorpe’s story share a tender, familial bond that, like so much else in war literature, is generally ascribed to men... an eloquent reminder of how women’s experiences are transforming military lore." (Bookforum)
"Thorpe fills this gripping tale with the women’s own words, texts, and letters (from friends and their children, as well), and the story is engrossing and heartbreaking at once." (Booklist)
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- ASIN : B00GEECHA2
- Publisher : Scribner; Reprint edition (August 5, 2014)
- Publication date : August 5, 2014
- Language : English
- File size : 2.0 MB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 417 pages
- Best Sellers Rank: #323,356 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #35 in Biographies of the Iraq War
- #45 in Iraq War History (Kindle Store)
- #99 in Military Families (Books)
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About the author

Helen Thorpe is a journalist and an author of four prize-winning nonfiction books.
She has written three books of narrative nonfiction published by Scribner Books. Just Like Us was published in 2009, Soldier Girls in 2014, and The Newcomers in 2017. In those books Thorpe described the efforts of undocumented immigrants to gain legal status and a sense of belonging in American society, the challenges that veterans faced on returning home from foreign conflicts, and the experiences of families with refugee status as they attempt to resettle in the United States. Most recently, she published a digital-only collection of essays called Finding Motherland: Essays about Family, Food, and Migration.
Her work has received great praise from other authors. This is what several prominent writers had to say about The Newcomers:
"In this time of great anxiety, this splendid, humane, beautifully crafted book is a reminder of America’s proud, historic role as a beacon of hope to the world. And it is a terrific story."
—Doris Kearns Goodwin
"Helen Thorpe didn’t miss a detail during the year she spent watching 22 young refugees how to speak English (difficult) and how to be American (even more difficult). No one with a pulse could feel to be moved by this beautifully reported book."
—Anne Fadiman
"I loved this book. It brims with teenage life, with a sense of America being reborn, of new Americans being made. Cultures converge in a high school classroom were teenagers – with all the energy, earnestness, and embarrassment we expect, but also with trauma – learn English with the help of a teacher who appreciates all the ways it’s not easy. The Newcomers teaches us about parts of the world we can barely imagine, and it also takes us into their new American homes. Helen Thorpe, herself the child of immigrants, is a terrific writer and a steadfast character witness to these people so many of us fear."
—Ted Conover
"Few books could be more vital, in this particular moment or in any moment, than this book. Helen Thorpe writes expensively about one school, one classroom, one teacher, one groups of students – student who hail from the most severe places in the world and come together at South High. Confused, trouble, bright, magnificent: they converge, ostensibly to learn English, learning so much more than a language – learning about us and about themselves, all the bad and all the good. You need to meet these young people. Once you do, everything you read or hear or say will be illuminated and changed."
—Jeff Hobbs
Malcolm Gladwell has said of her previous work: "Helen Thorpe has taken policy and turned it into literature."
Thorpe was previously a staff writer at The New York Observer, The New Yorker's "Talk of the Town" section, and Texas Monthly. She has also written freelance stories for the New York Times Magazine, Westword, and 5280. She was born in London to Irish parents, and grew up in the United States, where she became a naturalized citizen at 21. She lives in Denver, Colorado.
Author Photograph by Marea Evans.
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Customers find the book insightful and informative, providing a clear perspective on the experiences of three women in the military. They describe it as an interesting, compelling read that keeps them hooked until the end. Readers appreciate the female perspective and the author's clarity in documenting the life and changes these women go through. The story is described as powerful and heart wrenching, tugging at their hearts. Many find the writing style compelling and hard to put down. However, opinions differ regarding the writing quality - some find it well-written and multilayered, while others mention spurts of somewhat incoherent writing.
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Customers find the book insightful and informative. They appreciate the author's detailed account of the women's experiences. The book provides an interesting perspective on three women from Indiana. Readers praise the well-researched, intimate account that gives a glimpse into military life.
"Soldier Girls is a rich, amazingly researched and wonderfully – intimately – written tale. The story is at least what its title states...." Read more
"This book examines in detail, over a number of years, what happens to three Indiana women who, for different reasons, naively join the National..." Read more
"This was an extremely moving book...." Read more
"...This book also provides an understanding of how deployments affect the families, especially the children...." Read more
Customers find the book engaging and interesting. They read the entire book, whereas most books they skim. The stories are compelling, touching, and realistic.
"Soldier Girls is a rich, amazingly researched and wonderfully – intimately – written tale. The story is at least what its title states...." Read more
"...This book is an excellent read for anyone who has served in the military as well as for their families...." Read more
"...A good book, good read, good education." Read more
"Terrific book!! Gives a point of view not really found often in literature: Women actually serving in war zones...." Read more
Customers appreciate the book's female perspective. They find it relatable and informative, providing a clear account of women in the military who are deployed. The book provides new insights into the lives of young women, showing that women can perform tasks previously thought to be reserved for men. The three women featured are well-described and represent working class backgrounds.
"...Nevertheless, the incredibly intimate accounts of these women give an unvarnished, eye opening view of the difficulties of serving in Afghanistan..." Read more
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"...a point of view not really found often in literature: Women actually serving in war zones...." Read more
"...wars were fought on the backs of poor people and gives a good picture of the women involved and what their life at home and at the front was like...." Read more
Customers find the stories gripping and heartfelt. They appreciate the author's narrative style that keeps them hooked. The book provides a realistic look at the trauma experienced by service members, helping readers better understand their experiences. Readers also mention that the stories are inspiring and true, making it an excellent read for understanding the impact of military service.
"Soldier Girls is a rich, amazingly researched and wonderfully – intimately – written tale. The story is at least what its title states...." Read more
"...This book was very well written, and their stories fascinating...." Read more
"...Their stories are inspiring, heart-breaking, fascinating and horrifying, and brought home clearly to me that war is hell...." Read more
"...The writer has a narrative style that carries you forward inexorably. But toward what? Another challenge. More transfers. More drinking...." Read more
Customers find the book insightful and sobering. They say it provides an intimate look at a day in the life of women in war, with compassion and understanding. The book offers a unique perspective into these three women's lives.
"...incredibly intimate accounts of these women give an unvarnished, eye opening view of the difficulties of serving in Afghanistan and Iraq...." Read more
"...A real eye-opener if you have not served." Read more
"...Thorpe did a lot of interviewing and research and gives us a unique perspective into these 3 women's live." Read more
"...A great insightful day-to-day look on how women dealt with war." Read more
Customers find the book engaging and hard to put down once started. They say it's easy for politicians to stand in front of cameras and talk.
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Customers find the writing quality of the book well-written and detailed. They appreciate the inspiring wordcraft and thoughtfulness. However, some readers feel the writing is concise and lacks a smooth narrator's voice. The text can seem too factual and repetitive, like it was written almost as a documentary.
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"...unfullfilling. I found the topic interesting, but the writing very mediocre.....sort of a long laundry list of "she did that and then..." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on November 13, 2014Soldier Girls is a rich, amazingly researched and wonderfully – intimately – written tale. The story is at least what its title states. In addition it is a balanced, tastefully developed, profound discussion of the flesh of military service. It does not shy from presenting the shameful components of our distinctive National engagements with both Iran and Afghanistan, where our Government's conduct, supported and funded by both Congressional Parties, as well as initiated by the usually blamed then Office of the President, and Foreign Relations, did enormous harm to a foreign nation, as well as to its own troops (both in battle and at home).
While the word "girls," of the title, is appropriately chosen, the experience of the reader is to personally be with a depth of women human-beings. It's a gift of the actual women – real and true – that they engage in sharing the substance and conduct of their lives.
One academic colleague once had a fixation of regaling her governing Board of Trustees with the comment, "Women are not human-beings." Her point appeared to be that "Women are victims," though, shockingly, no one ever asked this self-proclaimed feminist to explain her choice of language.
In serious contrast, the women-human-beings of Helen Thorpe's book, are not "victims." Being with the flesh of their lives, their courages, is a privilege for which I am greatly thankful. They become friends.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 9, 2014This book examines in detail, over a number of years, what happens to three Indiana women who, for different reasons, naively join the National Guard prior to 9/11 and eventually find themselves serving in Afghanistan or Iraq (or both). Soldier Girls is an unremittingly sober view of what modern military deployments can do to both women and men. Given the individuals profiled, it gives the impression that this burden largely falls upon, or is taken up by, those from working class backgrounds whose lives never got on track. While this impression may be accurate, it would have been useful to have also profiled those whose lives were less chaotic and more positively directed prior to joining the military reserves. Nevertheless, the incredibly intimate accounts of these women give an unvarnished, eye opening view of the difficulties of serving in Afghanistan and Iraq. It is a useful antidote to glorious portrayals of war as well as to our casual ignorance about the demands placed on military personnel during (multiple) overseas tours. It is strongly recommended reading for women of any background considering joining the military. It is also recommended for particularly close study by military brass and the politicians who are in a position to influence US military participation away from our shores.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 30, 2014This was an extremely moving book. Ms. Thorpe tells the story of three women in the Indiana National Guard who served in Afghanistan (and two of them also served in Iraq). They have to deal with the problems all of our soldiers have had with being pulled out of their normal lives at home and sent to fight in these two wars. In addition, they have to deal with the problems of dealing with being women in a traditionally male situation. Yes, they volunteered for their jobs. However, they didn't volunteer for the discrimination they faced. In addition to the problems all of our soldiers face, two of the women are mothers, which entails additional burdens, as they try to balance their life as a soldier with their lives as mothers and grandmothers. This book was very well written, and their stories fascinating.
BTW, do not believe the negative review posted about the "lack of AK-47's in the US Military". Obviously, the reviewer has not read this book. The book clearly explains that the job of two of the women in the book was to clean and repair captured AK-47's that were then given to the local Afghanistan forces to use, due to their dependability.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 10, 2014I gave this book a five star rating because it is very well written and helped me understand what happened to so many of our soldiers, especially the women.
The reasons they joined the National Guard, trying to get an education, caring for their loved ones - created a common thread among them. Even though they were different ages & came from different backgrounds, they were very supportive of each other and did their best to stay in touch and they managed to be there for each other as best they could. The descriptions of how they felt, physically and mentally, were so true to the veterans in my life who served in war zones. This book also provides an understanding of how deployments affect the families, especially the children.
This book is an excellent read for anyone who has served in the military as well as for their families. It would help put things in perspective and maybe help in understanding what they have been through. It also reminds me of how much the attack on our country on 9/11/2001 changed so much in our lives.
I pray that Drama, Debbie and Michelle find peace and the happiness they have earned.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2015The book gave me new insight to lives of young women whom I would have otherwise known nothing about. These are women from difficult backgrounds, who sign up for the National Guard as a way of earning money for college and building skills that will help them improve their lot. What they walk into are the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. Their relationships are, for the most part and with the exception of their relationships with each other, are tawdry, alcohol-drenched and unfullfilling.
I found the topic interesting, but the writing very mediocre.....sort of a long laundry list of "she did that and then this and then that." For that reason, I found the book hard to finish.