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The "Brain Rot" Redemption Arc
What's going on: We’ve all scrolled on our phones into oblivion and thumb pain — the “brain rot” is very real. It can come with anxiety, shorter attention spans (guilty), and brain fog. But for some groups, it might actually do the opposite. Researchers analyzed dozens of studies and found that people over 50 had a 58% lower risk of cognitive decline if they used their phones, tablets, or computers. The Washington Post reports that the benefit may come down to the three C’s: complexity, connection, and compensatory behaviors. That can include doing a digital crossword puzzle, chatting with friends, or even using the GPS. So don’t roll your eyes the next time grandma sends you an Insta reel about bathing your cat.
What it means: It could come down to how you use technology, not how long. Put simply: Brainy people love their gadgets, and those gadgets might help keep them brainy. Still, this isn’t a sign to turn your parents’ house into a Best Buy. Pitfalls remain, from falling for financial scams to believing misinformation. That’s why it’s important to help older people when they ask for it. Experts told WaPo it also pays to check our own screen time and reflect on how it adds to our lives. As for younger generations who came out of the womb knowing how to use a smartphone, it’s too soon to know how technology will shape their cognitive health as they age.
What's going on: At your next girls’ brunch, ask friends from different high schools about their sex ed classes, and you’ll likely get vastly different answers (from offensive chewing gum analogies to banana demos). Others might not have received this education at all. The quality of sex ed is getting worse and varies more by state and district than ever. A recent report from the Sexuality Information and Education Council (SIECUS) graded states on their sex ed policies. More than a quarter received Fs for failure to provide significantly inclusive and supportive sex ed (see where your state falls). Only 36 states and the District of Columbia even require sex ed in schools.
What it means: When students don’t get adequate sex ed, it can lead to more teen pregnancy, increased STIs, general confusion about reproductive health, and less guidance on healthy relationships and consent. Kids struggle to get reliable information from trusted sources, so many turn to TikTok or their friends instead. Parents can help fill the gaps — though not every child has an adult who offers factual, nonjudgmental guidance. One of the best approaches for parents is to make themselves “askable.” Experts say parents achieve that when they treat kids with respect, stay on topic during tough conversations, and answer questions with clear, accurate information.
What's going on: As the holidays sneak up on us, it’s a time that’s historically great for eggnog-lovers and bad for penny-pinchers. But this year, many are finding new ways to be festive on a budget. Fortune put it this way: People are dreaming “of a ‘Ralph Lauren Christmas’ in a dollar store American economy.” Think pinecones, tartan, velvet, brass candelabras — part of a trend that’s surged 600% on Instagram and TikTok compared to last year, with powerhouse numbers on Etsy and Google Trends, too. Everywhere you look, guides promise the luxe look for less (no glitter, please), even for those who don’t celebrate Christmas.
What it means: There’s a strange cognitive dissonance with this trend. Everyone and their mother (OK, especially their mother) seems obsessed with festive holiday garb, and yet, the economy hasn’t shown the same sparkle. People rarely spend big on holiday decor during uncertain times, so analysts say this is either a sign of creativity or delusion. As for the former, the second-hand shopping boom may be helping consumers score lavish-looking ornaments for cheap. Even those splurging beyond their means often have an emotional reason — they’re looking for a symbol of warmth and shimmering security in an increasingly precarious world. And if extra-bushy garland does the trick, who are we to judge?
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